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From: Bagi Rathy <bagirathy72@yahoo.co.in
Date: 4 June 2011 10:30 At the age of 21 almost all the girls are facing this issue: I guess it is a bit of information for a guy to understand how to make a successful life after marriage.
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, or a home maker, but you should marry her with the following facts as well.
The girl, who is as much educated as you are and who is earning almost like you. The one who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is a human being like you.
The one who has never entered the kitchen so far just like your sister (who hasn't, as she was busy in studies and competing in this competitive world)
The one, who has lived with her parents & brothers & sisters, almost like you as you do for 20-25 years of your life.
The one, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people and the one who is ready to adopt your home, your family, your ways as her beings.
The one, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; or if she learns faster than you.
The one, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, whom she knows from the school days or from the childhood and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, or your family gossip, unnecessary competition and unwanted insecurities.
Yes, she can also drink and dance just as well as you can, (but she won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you think otherwise)
The one who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines are to be met ( even in the office, nothing special consideration for the girls)
The one, who is trying to fulfill all the above to her level best and wants to make this most importantly as her entire life a grand success, if you just understand, cooperate, help her, respect her feelings, give your shoulders to her to face these issues and finally trust her.
The real scenario is all the guys are aware of this situation. However, majority of the guys are Hypocrites. They think if they show or accept frankly their love and affection with good understanding to his wife he will have a unsecured feeling of “my wife will dominate me; she will not obey me or respect me and my family etc… “ But it is not true!!!! Guys please understand if you give the comfortable feeling of “ my husband is there for me “ to your wife you can achieve what ever you want. Please understand.
The one, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire family, your unstinted support, most importantly your true love and affection.
But not many guys understand this....Please appreciate "HER"
Yours
Shanthi
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